One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you.
This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain.
You cannot ever be responsible for other people’s pain.
There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be.
If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person, then you polarize between victims and hurters.
That is then the way you will see the universe .
Of course it does not mean,we should avoid manners,rhetorics and the like.
However,it’s about balance.
You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion.